The Dark Night of the Soul – When the Light Is Hidden

“Even the darkness is not dark to You; the night shines like the day…” – Psalm 139:12

There comes a time on the inner path when all that once brought comfort fades. The clarity disappears. The presence we once felt intimately now seems distant or silent. This is the dark night of the soul—not a punishment, but a passage.

Popular spirituality often promises light, joy, and constant affirmation. But the mystics knew better. St. John of the Cross named this sacred descent the dark night, and taught that it was a necessary stage of purification, transformation, and deepening.

It is not the absence of God. It is the refinement of your soul's capacity to know God beyond emotion, beyond understanding, even beyond feeling.

What Is the Dark Night?

The dark night is not simply depression, although it may feel like it. It is not ordinary sadness, although sorrow may be present. It is the experience of spiritual desolation—when prayer feels dry, when spiritual truths seem hollow, when divine nearness becomes a distant memory.

But something holy is at work here. In the dark night, the soul is being weaned off the need for outer signs and inner rewards. It is being drawn into faith without sight, trust without reassurance.

The senses are silenced so the deeper voice may be heard.

The Purpose of Darkness

In the dark night, all our false idols are stripped away—our image of God, our attachment to spiritual experience, our dependence on emotion. What remains is naked longing. Pure yearning. A love that is no longer transactional, but surrendered.

This darkness is not God's absence—it is God's hiddenness. Like a seed buried in soil, something new is germinating. The soul is being emptied so it can be filled. Not with the old, but with the eternal.

“God remains silently present in the dark, teaching the soul to walk by trust.” – Anonymous contemplative

Personal Note: My Own Descent

There was a season in my life when everything fell away. The prayers that once lit up my spirit became dust in my mouth. I questioned everything—my calling, my beliefs, even the point of continuing. I felt abandoned.

But I kept showing up. I sat in silence, even when it felt like nothing. I lit a candle, not because I felt light, but because I needed to remember light. Slowly, something shifted. Not externally—but in me. A deeper stillness emerged. A trust that had nothing to prove.

The dark night didn’t end with a trumpet blast. It ended with a whisper: “I was here the whole time.”

How to Walk Through the Dark Night

If you are in the dark night, take heart. You are not being punished. You are being deepened.

What Helps:

1. Faithfulness over feeling – Keep praying, even if you feel nothing.
2. Silence over striving – Let the stillness work in you.
3. Simplicity over seeking – Read one verse. Sit with one image. No need to figure it out.
4. Community over isolation – Let others hold space for you when you cannot.

You are not alone. The light may be hidden, but it is not gone. You are being taught to see in a new way.

Reflection Practice

Find a quiet space. Dim the lights or light a single candle. Sit for a few minutes in stillness.

Ask:
“Am I willing to trust even when I feel nothing?”
“Can I honor this season as sacred, not shameful?”

Don’t search for answers. Just be present. Let the darkness speak in its own language.

Afterward, journal the following:

• What feels hidden right now?
• Where have I been invited to deeper surrender?

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“The dark night is God’s way of emptying the soul so that it can be filled with nothing but God.”           – St. John of the Cross

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Are you in the dark night? You are not alone.

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