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Monday, September 1, 2025

Meeting the Shadow: Embracing What We Hide

 


"The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it." – John 1:5

 

The Path to Wholeness

Every path toward wholeness invites us to confront the places we've long avoided. The shadow—those aspects of ourselves we've denied, feared, or hidden—serves as the gatekeeper to our transformation.

I once believed that spirituality meant embodying goodness, light, and positivity. In my quest, I avoided anger and denied envy, wearing a smile even when I felt broken. This wasn’t healing; it was hiding. True peace emerged when I chose to face my shadow with compassion.

Carl Jung wisely stated, "One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious." This is shadow work: illuminating the dark, not to judge but to understand; not to fix but to integrate.

The Symbolism of the Cross

In the Christian mystic path, the cross symbolizes the descent—the courage to face suffering, to hold tension, and to transform pain into grace. Jesus embraced the darkness of Gethsemane and the agony of the cross, and through that full entrance, light blossomed.

Meeting the shadow demands bravery. It’s much easier to project our pain onto others, to scapegoat, or to distract ourselves with busyness or piety. Yet, each disowned part calls to us, whispering through our triggers, irritations, and compulsions. What we reject in others often reflects what we struggle to accept in ourselves.

The Journey of Self-Discovery

When I finally sat with my shame—not to indulge it but to comprehend it—I discovered a wounded child yearning for love. In welcoming my anger, I unearthed a guardian of my boundaries. The shadow, when embraced, transforms into an ally.

This journey is not a singular event but a lifelong unfolding. Each season brings new layers, inviting us to deepen our understanding. As we befriend the shadow, we enlarge our capacity to love—not only ourselves but all beings, with their imperfections, wounds, and beauty.

Reflection Practice:

Journal on a recent moment that triggered strong emotion. Ask: What part of me is being reflected here? What might this discomfort be inviting me to see or heal?


“Your shadow is the doorway to your light.”


 


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